Wisdom for Seeking Singles

The Gender Blog addresses some crucial questions pertaining to singles and marriage.  

Click on the links below:

 

Complementarian Singles: How Can I Prepare Myself for Marriage? 

Complementarian Singles: Who Should I Marry?

Jeremiah Burrough’s Summary of the Gospel

Ligonier:

The gospel of Christ is the good tidings that God has revealed concerning Christ. As all mankind was lost in Adam and became the children of wrath, put under the sentence of death, God, though He left His fallen angels and has reserved them in the chains of eternal darkness, yet He has thought upon the children of men and has provided a way of atonement to reconcile them to Himself again.

The second Person in the Trinity takes man’s nature upon Himself, and becomes the Head of a second covenant, standing charged with sin. He answers for it by suffering what the law and divine justice required, and by making satisfaction for keeping the law perfectly. This satisfaction and righteousness He tenders up to the Father as a sweet savor of rest for the souls that are given to Him.

And now this mediation of Christ is, by the appointment of the Father, preached to the children of men, of whatever nation or rank, freely offering this atonement unto sinners for atonement, requiring them to believe in Him and, upon believing, promising not only a discharge of all their former sins, but that they shall not enter into condemnation, that none of their sins or unworthiness shall ever hinder the peace of God with them, but that they shall through Him be received into the number of those who shall have the image of God again to be renewed unto them, and that they shall be kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation.

That these souls and bodies shall be raised to that height of glory that such creatures are capable of, that they shall live forever enjoying the presence of God and Christ, in the fullness of all good, is the gospel of Christ. This is the sum of the gospel that is preached unto sinners.

From Gospel Conversation (c.1657) and reprinted by Ligonier Ministries in 2006.

Wisdom from the Proverbs on Parenting

I decided to post this not as a father (soon to be hopefully) but as someone who benefited from his parent’s nurturing wisdom when I was young.  As a potential father there is a desire to contrain the effects of depravity within the human heart through biblical principles and wisdom.  One way of constraining the effects of the fall is by starting early in an individual’s life.  I was blessed to have godly parents who bathed me in prayer and in scripture way before I was able to develop conceptual categories for the Gospel as pertaining to life.  Pulpit Magazine has laid out some lessons from the Proverbs for parenting.  Some of these principles may have to be reserved at a later age but these should prove to be helpful as your children continue to grow in grace.

Pulpit Magazine:

The book of Proverbs is a wonderful, intensely practical guide that contains much wisdom you can impart to your children as you train them in godly living. For your benefit, we’ve compiled ten lessons from Proverbs you should teach to your children. We’re convinced that, in the process of teaching those ten lessons, you’ll unearth many more principles from Proverbs that will serve your children well their entire lives.

 

Teach your children:

1. To have a healthy fear of God (1:7; 9:10; 10:27; 14:26-27; 15:16; 16:6; 19:23)

2. To guard their minds (4:23; 23:7)

3. To obey you (1:8; 4:1-4; 6:20-23; 30:17)

4. To carefully select their companions (1:11-18; 2:10-15; 13:20)

5. To control their sinful desires (2:16-19; 5:3-5; 6:23-33; 7:6-27)

6. To enjoy sexual fidelity (5:15-20)

7. To watch their words (4:24; 10:11, 19-21, 32; 12:18, 22; 15:1-2; 16:23; 20:15)

8. To pursue their work (6:6-11; 10:4-5; 22:29)

9. To manage their money (3:9-10; 11:24-26; 19:17; 22:9)

10. To love their neighbors (3:27-29; 25:21-22)

 

Ryan Ferguson recites Hebrews chapters 9 and 10

This excites me! (Translation: ESV)